Female Arousal Cream

Have you been searching for an arousal cream that really works?

Well I have tried several and wasted my money on most of them. While there are hundreds available, only a few of them actually work. So, I have created this review for you to read instead of guessing which one you should try. Here is a breakdown of some of my favorite female stimulate creams:

Cleopatra's Secret

This is a great arousal cream to start with. It is available in different scents and flavors (yes...it is edible!). My favorite is the Creme de Menth. It provides a cool sensation when applied to the clitoris and after about a minute it begins to get warm. This is like foreplay in a jar! It will put you in the mood in a matter of minutes!

China Nympho Cream

This is a great stimulate cream also. You apply a small amount to the vagina lips and clitoris. The clitoris swell and throb after a few minutes and you will be ready to go for an all nighter! Unlike the Cleopatra's Secret, this is not flavored. So if you are really into oral sex, I would recommend a stimulate cream that tastes good also!

Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm

Now we have got to the absolute best!

This stimulate cream is my absolute favorite. It works instantly and is not for anyone extremely sensitive in the clitoral area. You will only use a very, very small amount (less than a dime size). This arousal cream is also completely edible and tastes great! But wait, it gets even better....it can be used on women and men! While it provides intense and explosive orgasms for women, it will actually prolong the man's erection when placed on the main vein along the base of the penis! Pleasure Balm is the first and only arousal cream I have found that has actually helped me to acheive multiple orgasms! I like to call it 1000 orgasms in a jar!

~Misty

Romance Expert

A Rabbit Pearl Review

What's all the hype about the Famous Rabbit Pearl?

I have a good amount of vibrator experience. I started out as most people do with a hard plastic vibrator. The toy always gave me satisfying orgasms, but after a while I wanted something a little more versatile and sophisticated. I wasn't tired of my old toy but I heard the buzz several years back about the Jack Rabbit and the features sounded interesting and potentially very satisfying. I enjoy clitoral stimulation and had experimented with my G-Spot a bit. I like the sensation of pressure on my G-Spot and when combined with clitoral stimulation I have really powerful orgasms.

So I decided to buy the Jack Rabbit and it was awesome. I loved the toy and my orgasms with it were more satisfying than ever. After a while it began to wear out and I started searching for another one. While looking for a new Jack Rabbit I came across the Rabbit Pearl, and although it was a little more expensive I decided to give it a try.

Buying the Rabbit Pearl turned out to be a truly rewarding investment! I have owned the toy for a year and it is still going strong. All of the features, the bunny clitoral stimulator, rotating shaft and spinning pearls work together or separately. It's up to you how to use them.

This toy has helped me get to know my body better. Knowing what kind of sexual stimulation I like has given me a lot of confidence. Sex with my husband is better than it ever has been. My self-discovery started with the Rabbit's rotating shaft. I didn't think much of it at first, but as I experimented with the toy I found that I enjoyed the G-Spot stimulation the shaft provided. I found an angle that really worked and I've stuck with it. For several months I would find that angle, adjust the vibrator's speed to what I like - which is about half way between low and high, and then turn on the rabbit clitoral stimulator just a bit. I would orgasm very quickly and it was very satisfying. After a while I began experimenting with the pearls. In case you don't know how the pearls work, they are basically a group of 40 or 50 pearls encapsulated within the shaft located about midway between the tip and the base of the bunny. There is a spinning mechanism within the pouch that moves the pearls around in a circular motion. They don't spin fast but they do move back and forth, and around the shaft. The resulting sensations are unique and very pleasurable. They're something you really need to experience, because there's nothing to compare it to.

There are probably as many ways to use the Rabbit Pearl as there are women to use it. It is capable of many different things and I've found that I can get really creative with it. Sometimes I use the bunny stimulator alone. I've learned that I can have multiple orgasms with direct clitoral stimulation. They're different from the orgasms I have when I stimulate my G-Spot and my clitoris simultaneously. I would describe clitoral orgasms as "higher", making me feel happy afterwards, while orgasms while stimulating my G-Spot are deeper and in the end more relaxing. I wouldn't say one is better than the other because I enjoy both. Sometimes I'm in the mood for one, and sometimes the other.

To give you an idea of what the Rabbit Pearl feels like, imagine a twisting shaft inside you stimulating your G-Spot, a group of pearls stimulating your vaginal opening through a soft jelly shaft, and the bunny rabbit vibrating on your clitoris. This intense toy is very easy to use and there are two controls that slide up and down and control the functions. Once you get used to them they become second nature and you don't have to even think about it. The toy is more quiet than the Jack Rabbit and I'm happy that I decided to get it. If you've considered a Rabbit vibrator I highly recommend the Rabbit Pearl. It is the most solidly made vibrator I have owned and it shows no sign of slowing down.

Anal Sex For Beginners Guide

Here is a guide to help you introduce and try anal sex with your lover.

~How to Have Anal Sex with Your Partner~

If you're a man, this involves inserting your penis into your partner's butt. If you're a woman, you'll be anally penetrating your partner with a strap-on dildo. Why would you want to do this? Your anus is full of sensitive nerve endings that feel great when stimulated by a finger, toy, tongue, or penis. Anal intercourse can also stimulate men's prostates and indirectly stimulate women's G-spots. What's not to like about that!

Lets Get Started:

1. Communicate. If your partner has never experimented with anal sex, you need to discuss the idea beforehand. The first step is to let your partner know you're interested. Tell them it is a desired fantasy, read or watch some erotica depicting anal sex, or go sex toy shopping together. Make sure you are in agreement about this--you really don't want to surprise your partner!

2. Forget the myths. Most people have some reservations about anal sex, whether it’s stress about cleanliness or concerns about sexual orientation. Most of these anxieties can be alleviated with a little information. For example, relieving your bowels beforehand or bathing can help with worries about bowel movements and cleanliness. As for orientation, you might be surprised to find that recent studies indicate that almost one in three heterosexual couples have tried anal sex.

3. Get the necessary goods. Once you've agreed to this activity, you'll want an good supply of a thicker lubricant. If you're a woman doing the penetrating, choose a strap-on dildo and harness combination so you can have some hands-free fun. (You can also find a dildo that vibrates so your clit gets its own action.) If this is your first time performing anal penetration, you might feel a bit silly in the harness, but try to get into the role reversal--it can be a real turn on.

4. Get into position. When you’re ready to move into anal penetration, have your partner bend over the bed with his or her legs spread slightly, with you standing behind. This position is comfortable for both of you and minimizes the moving-target effect of a bouncy bed! Apply an abundant amount of lube to your finger, toy, and his or her anus.

5. Start with fingers. Use your finger to gently massage the anus and perineum. Slip a finger into the rectum to help it relax. Have your partner push out (as if trying to have a bowel movement) as you enter, which will relax the anal sphincter enough for you to insert your finger.

6. Time for penetration. Once you’ve gotten a finger in, pull it out and give your well-lubed penis or dildo a turn. Grasp it near the top and guide the tip into the rectum. Have your partner push out again as you push in from behind. Push very gently, just enough to pass the sphincter. Then stop and let your partner get used to the sensation. If you're using a dildo with a vibrator, turn the vibrator on so you can both feel the vibrations.

7. Ready for motion. When your partner's ready, ask whether he or she’d prefer that you control the thrusting motion. Your partner may be more comfortable easing back onto your penis or dildo at first. Make sure your partner lets you know what angle and depth of penetration feels good, as well as the speed and pacing. Don’t withdraw completely (unless your partner requests it), as getting past the anal sphincter is probably the most challenging part for beginners.

8. A note to the ladies with strap-ons: Even though the dildo is attached to your body, you can't feel it, so in the beginning it might help to put one hand around the base of the penis and guide your toy in and out for awhile until you get comfortable with the rhythm.

9. Reapply lube. Should you find you need more lube (and you can never have enough during anal play!), withdraw your dildo about two-thirds of the way, apply fresh lube to the shaft, and re-insert.

10. Add other stimulation. As your partner gets increasingly turned on by the anal penetration, invite him to play with his penis or her to play with her clitoris. Your partner may find that your movements create pleasant friction between his or her genitals and the bed, or he or she may want to back up a bit and masturbate.

11. Come. When your partner's ready to come, keep up your thrusting unless you're asked to stop. Don’t stop until your partner's finished coming, and check in soon after as he or she may want you to remove the penis or dildo quickly.

Tips:
1. Experiment with different positions. Instead of the rear entry position, try the missionary position, with your partner's legs pointed toward the ceiling. These positions, as well as the side-by-side position are great beginner’s anal sex positions, because it’s easier to fully relax the anus.
2. If it hurts, you're doing something wrong. Never proceed if your partner is in pain. If you focus on relaxing your anus, you shouldn't feel pain.
3. You can explore anal sex in the shower, which helps you stay slippery (use a silicone-based lube so it won't wash away), and alleviates any fear of uncleanliness.
4. If you have trouble at first, consider masturbating with some anal toys: butt plugs, anal kits, and anal beads, can all be a nice introduction to anal play.

Don’t Forget the Necessities:

• Lubricant, especially a thicker brand like Doc's Anal Lube or Desentizing Anal Lube for beginners.
• Take a Bath or Shower first for cleanliness.
• Have a Towel ready for clean up.
• A dildo with a flared base or butt plug if you're cautious about inserting your penis.
• A strap-on harness and dildo if you are a woman. We recommend one with dual penetration, to please yourself also.
• A Book & Video Kit (optional, but a good resource).

Erotic Genital Massage

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Genital Massage is the perfect way to please your partner! Follow these tips for an arousing erotic massage.

Make your partner relax with a few soft sweeps of your fingertips along his or her body. Look into your partner's eyes as you begin touching his or her genitals. As you proceed with genital massage, remember to use your free hand to tease the rest of your partner's body.

Female Genital Massage
Start by gently rubbing the entire vulva, follow with clitoral stimulation, and finish with internal and clitoral stimulation -- don't forget the G-Spot! Remember that vaginal penetration usually doesn't feel good unless she is already in a fairly high state of arousal. If your partner is comfortable, feel free to use a vibrator to assist you in the massage.

Male Genital Massage
Begin by applying some lubricant to the palm of your hands and rubbing it gently into the penis and testicles. Male genital massage is guided by one main principle: slow down and stop or change what you are doing just before ejaculation becomes inevitable. Ask your partner to let you know if he is about to ejaculate, or develop a signal - verbal cues, raising a hand, pulling away slightly, or even subtle body language cues can all work well. It's usually best to vary strokes at the beginning, and then concentrate on one or two kinds of strokes as the massage nears completion. By bringing your lover to the peak without allowing him to ejaculate, you prolong the massage and help your lover have a more intense orgasm.

After the massaging is finished and you are both relaxed, remember to spend some time together before falling asleep or running out the door. You have both just shared an extremely intimate experience. Hold each other, talk to each other, and enjoy the intimacy as long as you can. Be positive about the experience, especially if it was your first time. Remember, practice makes perfect!

Sensual Massage

Set the Mood for Relaxation

Before you begin turn off the phone, dim the lights, and light some candles. Set the mood for a romantic evening of sensual loving massage. Give your partner your undivided attention.
Start by lightly stroking your partner's body with the tips of your fingers. Begin with the back, and then move to the shoulders, arms, buttocks, thighs and calves. Remember to use only light, teasing strokes. When you sense that your partner is relaxed (you might have to ask), you are ready to progress to massage.

1. Pour about two tablespoons of massage oil into the palm of your hand, and rub your hands together lightly. When the oil is warm and evenly distributed, begin massaging your partner's back with long, deep strokes.

2. At the beginning, communicate frequently with your partner to determine if the strokes are too hard or too soft. Keep your hands in contact with your partner at all times, take your time with each rhythmic-yet-sensitive stroke, and proceed from long, gliding strokes to shorter, deeper strokes.

3. Use your body weight rather than your arm strength for deep strokes; during gliding strokes, keep your knees slightly bent, and don't lean over the table.

4. Once you have developed a rhythm that pleases both of you, move on to the shoulders and arms, and progress to the legs and feet, brushing the buttocks as you move up and down your partner's body.

5. Ask your partner to turn over. Begin massaging the chest, arms and hands. Pay special attention to your female partner's breasts: don't be too invasive at this stage, but don't ignore them. Lightly stroke the nipples and undersides.

6. Glide down to the legs, brushing the genitals on your way down. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals. Tease your partner by brushing his or her inner thighs near the genitals, and very lightly touching the pubic region.

7. Allow the erotic energy to build until it seems like a natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activities.

Sensual massage will unlock the passion and drive you absolutely insane for each other. It is very relaxing and calming. Bring your relationship to a whole new level by trying sensual massage.

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Why buy Coochy Cream?

If you have never tried Coochy Rash-Free Shave Cream, then you honestly do not know what you are missing! This is by far the best shave cream that I have ever used!

Coochy Rash-Free Shave Cream will not only condition your skin as you shave, it will eliminate the red bumps under your arms and in your bikina area from ordinary shaving. It will even stop you from getting those painful ingrown hairs!

How many times have you gotten in the shower and lathered up your legs with regular shaving cream, only for it to run down your leg and into the drain?
~With this Coochy Shave Cream, you will never have to rush to shave your legs before the water rinses it off because it will stay in place until you shave it off!!!

Coochy Rash-Free Shave Cream is Highly Recommended by your Sex Toy Review Expert, Misty!

Sex Toy Myths

Myth #1: My partner wants to use sex toys. I must be sexually inadequate.

Whenever buying (or considering buying) a sex toy, it's a good idea to consider the feelings of your partner. Discussing sex toys with your partner before introducing them into your sex lives is not only respectful, but in many cases quite necessary. Many people assume that sex toys are purchased to fulfill some sort of sexual inadequacy. This is most often not the case. Discuss your reasons for buying a sex toy with your partner; it's usually necessary to prevent any hurt feelings.
Most people buy sex toys because they're an enjoyable way to explore new possibilities. It's fun to explore sexual potential whether alone or with a partner.

Myth #2: I will get addicted to sex toys and won't be able to reach orgasm without them.

There's a very human propensity to become familiar with a particular form of stimulation. Whether it's cunnilingus from your partner, or vaginal penetration from your dildo, there are some forms of stimulation you count on to get you off. You can become addicted to your vibrator just as easily as you become addicted to a particular practice with your partner. It can happen, but you are not helpless to control and change it. Experiment with new positions, new toys, and new activities. Keep trying new things and you'll never be sexually dependent on any one particular practice.

Myth #3: Using a vibrator will cause damage to my genitals.

There's absolutely no physiological basis for such an argument. Vibrators can occasionally make genitals feel numb during or immediately after use but the sensitivity will always return. Experiment with different forms of stimulation during sex play to decrease any numbing effects.

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Why buy Sex Toys?

Pleasure

In today’s society where sexual pleasure and guilt are associated, it is not surprising that sex toys have gotten a bad rap just for being themselves. It goes without saying that sex toys are best enjoyed with no guilt attached. They require no justification; sex toys are pure pleasure for pleasure's sake. They offer us a unique opportunity to explore our bodies in new and exciting ways. You'll no doubt discover more about sexual desire and probably discover a few new erogenous zones as well. Sex toys are simply a gateway to pleasure. Here are some of the best starter toys: the Silver Bullet, the Distant Lover, or the Krystal Fantasy Vibe.

Fantasy

For those of us in steady relationships, it can be difficult to explore our sexual fantasies. Being faithful is much more important than living out your deepest desires, but sex toys give us the opportunity to indulge our fantasies in a completely safe environment. In this sense, sex toys can be an extremely helpful addition to any loving relationship. While it's nearly impossible for one person to satisfy every facet of another's desire, sex toys can help by providing a new element to your sexual ritual without the complications of the actual realization of your fantasies.

Inspiration

An uninspired performance in the bedroom can be a real strain on your relationship. With the daily stresses of life, sex can often take a back seat to more pressing matters. Whether it is families or careers, our lives are busier than ever and intimacy often feels the squeeze. So why not introduce something a little risqué to the proceedings? Sex toys give couples a chance to explore each other and add a whole new meaning to foreplay. Adult toys are a wonderful way to spice up your sex life. Try a toy made for both of you, such as the Diving Dolphin.

Sexual Health

Sex toys are good for you! There is some interesting and well-documented health benefits associated with the use of sex toys.
During menopause, most women experience some thinning of the vaginal wall. Studies indicate that the regular use of a dildo can help maintain vaginal tone.
Women who have trouble reaching orgasm can also benefit from the use of sex toys. Many leading experts on the subject recommend the use of a vibrator to help overcome orgasmic difficulty.

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Giving the Ultimate Blow Job

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THE TOUNGUE FLUTTER
The best position for this very sensuous sucking movement is kneeling over your partner. If he is on his back kneel between his legs, or kneel in front of your partner while he stands. I like this position because his penis feels thicker in your mouth and throat and you have complete freedom to massage his balls while performing.
Firmly wrap your lips around the head of the penis and hold on to the shaft. Gently flick the tip of the penis with your tongue and tease him. Then with your lips around the penis shaft make an up and down movement with your tongue. Flutter your tongue up and down the tip of the penis.
I recommend you try this one. It will drive your partner crazy and make him beg and plead for more! After several minutes of this technique continue with the basic vacuum suck.

THE HEAVY BREATHER
With your lips firmly wrapped around the head of his penis, go down the penis shaft as far as you are comfortable with. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. As you are sucking in air, let your open mouth travel up to the penis head. Your up stroke motion should end at the head of his penis just as your lungs fill with air. Now with your mouth still open let the air in your lungs out slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the penis shaft. This technique cools the penis on the up stoke and warms the penis with your hot breath on the down stroke. As long as you are comfortable with, do this technique then return to the basic vacuum suck method.

THE AMAZING FIGURE-EIGHT
After you have become comfortable with the basic vacuum suck and you have become accustomed to his penis deep in your mouth and throat try this technique. It is guaranteed to take his breath away! With your lips firmly wrapped around the penis shaft try very slowly to reach the base of the shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable. Your nose should be buried in or at least touching the pubic hairs at the base of the penis.
With your nose trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying on its side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the penis to the head, doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly travel up and down the penis shaft. Do this for as long as you are comfortable with it. When you get tired of this movement, slow down and return to the basic suck. Believe me your man will be in ecstasy as his wildest dreams of the ultimate blow job are coming true!

THE 180
Place his erect penis inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one.
This technique is most effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his penis. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner.

THE LOLLIPOP LICK
With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front, lift his hard penis and reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone. Follow this with the basic vacuum suck to finish if necessary.
You are now equipped with the knowledge of how to please your partner in ways he might not be familiar with. Listen to the noises he makes and learn what makes him happy. If you want to make him cum as opposed to just warming him up for hours of pleasure, just remember these 5 things: Patience, Passion, Proper Pressure, Variety of Moves, and Swallowing is going to get your man to tell you that you give the ULTIMATE blow-job!

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