Sex Toy Myths

Myth #1: My partner wants to use sex toys. I must be sexually inadequate.

Whenever buying (or considering buying) a sex toy, it's a good idea to consider the feelings of your partner. Discussing sex toys with your partner before introducing them into your sex lives is not only respectful, but in many cases quite necessary. Many people assume that sex toys are purchased to fulfill some sort of sexual inadequacy. This is most often not the case. Discuss your reasons for buying a sex toy with your partner; it's usually necessary to prevent any hurt feelings.
Most people buy sex toys because they're an enjoyable way to explore new possibilities. It's fun to explore sexual potential whether alone or with a partner.

Myth #2: I will get addicted to sex toys and won't be able to reach orgasm without them.

There's a very human propensity to become familiar with a particular form of stimulation. Whether it's cunnilingus from your partner, or vaginal penetration from your dildo, there are some forms of stimulation you count on to get you off. You can become addicted to your vibrator just as easily as you become addicted to a particular practice with your partner. It can happen, but you are not helpless to control and change it. Experiment with new positions, new toys, and new activities. Keep trying new things and you'll never be sexually dependent on any one particular practice.

Myth #3: Using a vibrator will cause damage to my genitals.

There's absolutely no physiological basis for such an argument. Vibrators can occasionally make genitals feel numb during or immediately after use but the sensitivity will always return. Experiment with different forms of stimulation during sex play to decrease any numbing effects.

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Why buy Sex Toys?

Pleasure

In today’s society where sexual pleasure and guilt are associated, it is not surprising that sex toys have gotten a bad rap just for being themselves. It goes without saying that sex toys are best enjoyed with no guilt attached. They require no justification; sex toys are pure pleasure for pleasure's sake. They offer us a unique opportunity to explore our bodies in new and exciting ways. You'll no doubt discover more about sexual desire and probably discover a few new erogenous zones as well. Sex toys are simply a gateway to pleasure. Here are some of the best starter toys: the Silver Bullet, the Distant Lover, or the Krystal Fantasy Vibe.

Fantasy

For those of us in steady relationships, it can be difficult to explore our sexual fantasies. Being faithful is much more important than living out your deepest desires, but sex toys give us the opportunity to indulge our fantasies in a completely safe environment. In this sense, sex toys can be an extremely helpful addition to any loving relationship. While it's nearly impossible for one person to satisfy every facet of another's desire, sex toys can help by providing a new element to your sexual ritual without the complications of the actual realization of your fantasies.

Inspiration

An uninspired performance in the bedroom can be a real strain on your relationship. With the daily stresses of life, sex can often take a back seat to more pressing matters. Whether it is families or careers, our lives are busier than ever and intimacy often feels the squeeze. So why not introduce something a little risqué to the proceedings? Sex toys give couples a chance to explore each other and add a whole new meaning to foreplay. Adult toys are a wonderful way to spice up your sex life. Try a toy made for both of you, such as the Diving Dolphin.

Sexual Health

Sex toys are good for you! There is some interesting and well-documented health benefits associated with the use of sex toys.
During menopause, most women experience some thinning of the vaginal wall. Studies indicate that the regular use of a dildo can help maintain vaginal tone.
Women who have trouble reaching orgasm can also benefit from the use of sex toys. Many leading experts on the subject recommend the use of a vibrator to help overcome orgasmic difficulty.

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Giving the Ultimate Blow Job

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THE TOUNGUE FLUTTER
The best position for this very sensuous sucking movement is kneeling over your partner. If he is on his back kneel between his legs, or kneel in front of your partner while he stands. I like this position because his penis feels thicker in your mouth and throat and you have complete freedom to massage his balls while performing.
Firmly wrap your lips around the head of the penis and hold on to the shaft. Gently flick the tip of the penis with your tongue and tease him. Then with your lips around the penis shaft make an up and down movement with your tongue. Flutter your tongue up and down the tip of the penis.
I recommend you try this one. It will drive your partner crazy and make him beg and plead for more! After several minutes of this technique continue with the basic vacuum suck.

THE HEAVY BREATHER
With your lips firmly wrapped around the head of his penis, go down the penis shaft as far as you are comfortable with. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. As you are sucking in air, let your open mouth travel up to the penis head. Your up stroke motion should end at the head of his penis just as your lungs fill with air. Now with your mouth still open let the air in your lungs out slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the penis shaft. This technique cools the penis on the up stoke and warms the penis with your hot breath on the down stroke. As long as you are comfortable with, do this technique then return to the basic vacuum suck method.

THE AMAZING FIGURE-EIGHT
After you have become comfortable with the basic vacuum suck and you have become accustomed to his penis deep in your mouth and throat try this technique. It is guaranteed to take his breath away! With your lips firmly wrapped around the penis shaft try very slowly to reach the base of the shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable. Your nose should be buried in or at least touching the pubic hairs at the base of the penis.
With your nose trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying on its side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the penis to the head, doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly travel up and down the penis shaft. Do this for as long as you are comfortable with it. When you get tired of this movement, slow down and return to the basic suck. Believe me your man will be in ecstasy as his wildest dreams of the ultimate blow job are coming true!

THE 180
Place his erect penis inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one.
This technique is most effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his penis. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner.

THE LOLLIPOP LICK
With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front, lift his hard penis and reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone. Follow this with the basic vacuum suck to finish if necessary.
You are now equipped with the knowledge of how to please your partner in ways he might not be familiar with. Listen to the noises he makes and learn what makes him happy. If you want to make him cum as opposed to just warming him up for hours of pleasure, just remember these 5 things: Patience, Passion, Proper Pressure, Variety of Moves, and Swallowing is going to get your man to tell you that you give the ULTIMATE blow-job!

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